That kind of stuff might "fly", when it comes to dispatching police, fire or ambulance calls, but freight railroading is a whole other deal, entirely. Anyone that gets to "know" the guy at the other end of the radio (either end) gets put into a position of not wanting to "hurt", or offend his friend. If I am train "A" waiting to go west, and Joe Blow is on train "B", and the DS knows that I will get out there, as soon as the signal lights for my movement, and haul-ass off of his territory, whereas "Joe" will wait for this and that, pull slow, and never even get up to track speed, who do you think gets the signal, if we were both at the junction, at the same point in time ? The DS has to "know" me, and remember that I was one of his "hot-runners", for him to turn me loose, in the first place. Many were the times I was sent out, ahead of a scheduled passenger train, WB at NK tower, due to this very fact. The operator would turn us loose, because he knew us, and knew we were going to get the hell off his "property". Same thing applies to meets. You get the DS to run you to the next siding, to meet, instead of this one, because you say you can do it. Anyone can say what they will do. I know this guy personally, and my word on the job is the same as my word off the job. I am not going to "stab" my friend, ever. I don't ask for the run, unless I know I won't hurt the opposing movement, or following movement. We are not taking calls to save lives, put out fires, etc. We are putting our name/friendship on the line, with the OP, or DS, when we say what we can/will do. Sure, there are guys who say they can run, then go out there and just drag 'em down the line. Those guys get remembered also, but for all of the wrong reasons. Those same guys will hear words on the radio like "you are going in at Haverstraw, for 4 southbounds", one of which hasn't even left the fuel pad at Selkirk yet. Don't kid yourself into thinking this does not happen. It happens every day, on lots of roads. You want to help your friends, and they want to help you. That's what a friend is all about. Right or wrong, it does happen. I wont even mention befriending the crew callers, and being called for light engines, every sunday, or one way & deadhead coaltrains every tuesday,or piloting crews from North Bergen to Oak Island , or........Regards