dt_rt40 wrote:
It's not the time or a place for a 1000 word essay on why there is a connection, but there is. The same culture that celebrates idiocy -- which has to some degree been exacerbated by clumsy and ineffective school administration policies -- connects the deliberate misspelling of simple words with the sort of attitude that would encourage someone to walk to school along extremely dangerous railroad tracks.
Well, I held back before. But now I'll just come out and say it.
The educational system and the society you grew up in IS in fact partly responsible for what you've become:
1) someone who calls out children for writing the nickname of their dead friend on a memorial to her. I repeat, they spelled it correctly - because it's her NICKNAME! They weren't calling her a baby girl. To put this in terms you can understand, the segregationist Governor of Virginia was named Byrd. That's not a misspelling of the word bird. It's the way his family chose to spell the name. They changed the name, long ago, to distinguish it from the word bird. Precisely as this girl's friends have done.
2) someone rude enough to put the word memorial in quotes because he somehow disapproves of the manner of people's grieving. Very, very classy.
3) someone who can't recognize the devastating sarcasm of "I'm sure no one walked on tracks when you were a kid" and replies with a simple "I did, but I looked both ways". Someone not thoughtful enough to pursue the idea and realize "holy crap, that guy is right -- way more kids got hit by trains when I was a kid, so clearly, the fact that one kid got hit by a train is either not reflective of parenting skills nor of the education system, or else it's reflective of parenting skills and an education system that are vastly improved today over the norms when I was a kid."
But hey, logic ain't for everyone. Go right on posting whatever you like about a girl's death, now that we've determined that neither logic nor politeness can restrain you.