I know how you feel spro. I did a horrible commuting myself. But atleast it won't end up like the old CNJ lift Bridge over Newark Bay that was demolished in a "jihad" like way by the joint venture of the USCG and Toyota. Morons!
That 4 track ROW bridge could've been easily resued as a walking/bike and even light rail access to the lower end of Jersey City and linked the NCS with the HBLR.