Train time is my time to either mentally prepare myself for the day or unwind after work. I like to find myself a corner and close my eyes, relax to the swaying of the train, and even fall asleep. In terms of the other passengers, most of them read or play games on their phones, or relax like I do. But there is always that one guy barking into his cell phone or a group of people who are talking obnoxiously loud (or, my personal favorite, sit in separate window seats on opposite sides of the train and talking ACROSS an empty train) that have to ruin it for everyone else.
Going into the city, I don't need to worry about waiting unless the train is obnoxiously late, during which time I am usually checking my phone (Apps, SEPTA twitter feed, and Amtrak alerts) and talking to the other regulars about what is going on. Going home and waiting at the station for my train, I do what any railfan does: watch the trains. I'll even play a little game with myself to "guess the equipment of the announced train." I found that if I see more Silverliner 5s than 4s, my train is almost always a set of 4s. I'll even look for ALP-44 2308 on the Push-Pulls. It keeps me alert and entertained enough.
I think that the real allure of the train is its convenience and atmosphere. People do not take it to get to their jobs quicker or because it is necessarily cheaper than parking downtown (although sometimes it is). The train runs on a timetable and you will get into work at a mostly consistent time, provided no "signal problems," "police activity," "equipment problems," or "switch problems" get in the way. It is much more relaxing to sit on a train rather than have to deal with the uncertainty of traffic and accidents on the Schuylkill, or navigating the tight and bumpy lane shifts in the construction zones on I-95. Plus, as an added bonus, you could get a little bit of extra work done if you have a laptop, or just relax.
I generally agree that the QuietRide (QR) program should be expanded, but not to corral all the "talkers" I referenced in the first paragraph into a "talking car." That would be disastrous with everyone trying to talk over each other. The primary issue I have with the QR car is that it is limited to one car per train, and always at the front. As I have said to people asking me about the best place to sit on the train, not all cars platform at all stations, except the first two, including the QR car. On rush hour trains, the front is super packed to a SRO situation, with people practically sitting on top of each other. I don't find the benefit of quiet at a cost of comfort to be appealing, so I will always sit in the last car of a rush hour train. And that car usually has the most space of all of them.
I propose that in order to better even out the passenger distribution on these long trains is to allow the last car of long rush hour trains of 6 cars or more to also be a Quiet Ride car. I think that this would provide an incentive for passengers to move toward the back of the train.
Lines Frequented: SEPTA Trenton Line, West Trenton Line, Warminster Line; NJT Northeast Corridor Amtrak Northeast Corridor (PHL-NYP).